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Why Polyamory is the solution instead of divorce
Most people find it hard to cope in a monogamous relationship, and the next thing they think of is divorce. Their different things that make an engaged relationship so challenging for most people. Especially those who are more sexually active than their partners.
However, there is a better way to avoid divorce and enjoy your relationship with multiple partners. This does not even involve a kind of legal agreement or marriage. And this way is referred to as the Polyamory relationship.
What is a polyamory reletiomship?
Polyamory refers to people who embrace multiple romantic relationships with the consent of their partners. There are guidelines to this relationship that protect individual rights and show that everyone is aware of their getting into it.
Polyamorous people are different from monogamous or polygamous relationships where engagement or any form of marriage exists. Although this does not mean that a Polyamorous relationship does not require commitment, it does. But this is at each partner's convenience.
Why Polyamory is the solution instead of divorce Polyamory saves marriage
Polyamory is not a secretive relationship or a cheating lifestyle. It can help save a marriage where the man or woman feels cheated on, and one prefers divorce.
A monogamous relationship with children may affect their children if they choose divorce instead of staying together. However, both partners can sort it out by choosing Polyamory-relationships over divorce.
For instance, a woman who feels her husband is cheating on her can talk to her husband and make their relationship open to get another intimate partner without affecting their child's life and still keep her relationship with her husband.
Preventing infidelity
One problem that makes it easier for a monogamous relationship to end so fast is infidelity. Infidelity refers to a lack of faithful life.
Although, infidelity exists mainly among monogamous people because of too many secretive lives from their partners. Polyamory is different, and it is an open relationship. The partner knows what they are into.
Letting your partners know how you feel towards them and being honest makes Polyamory the best solution to divorce. You don't need to worry about having sex with multiple people. There is no time to worry about infidelity; you stay focused on your desired lifestyle.
Polyamory helps keep the family bond and reduce commitment
Once you choose to divorce your partner, you are cutting off the bonds between you. It might even close all benefits you may be enjoying from them.
To keep the bonds without having lots of commitment, try to choose Polyamory instead of divorce. In polyamory relationships, you still have access to each other even intimately.
Although, the commitment may reduce, unlike the monogamous relationship where everything may seem like duty is assigned to you. You only respond to things you feel like doing; you are not under any force.
Open to more loving life without closing one.
When you have more people who love you, you feel safe and psychologically satisfied. We all desire to have trusted friends, so trusting romantic friendship will feel different.
Therefore, you will enjoy a happier life if you are loved intimately by many people. It is better than ending a relationship and getting a new one.
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