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FAQ

General

Who is this site made for?
This site is suitable for men and woman who are interested in creating non monogamous relationships (romantic or other) such as polyamory relationships, open relationships etc..
Is this site paid?
This site is new, and for the time being will be free.
I found a bug. What do I do?
If you encountered a bug using a bug, please report it to us using the "contact us" form, or directly at [email protected]
I have an idea for a cooperation with your site. How can I contact you?
Please feel free to contact us at [email protected], or using the "contact us" form.

What is a quick search?
Quick search lets you find other users based on some of the parameters you were asked to .fill out while signing up (e.g age)
What is "Advanced search"?
Advanced search is a tool that lets you find other users that meet multiple criteria. At any point you may reset the search. To access advanced search, please click the advanced search button under the quick search button.

Notifications

How can I tell if someone is available to chat with?
Users can be filtered by "online", and additionally, online users will have a green badge displayed.
How can I tell if a sent message was read?
By every sent message are two V signs. If both are grey the message was sent. If they are blue they were seen by the recipient.
How can I delete a message?
Messages can be hidden by clicking the trash can shown by them. All messages will be deleted 90 days after being sent.
How can I prevent someone from messaging me?
If you enter a users profile, you can see a "block" button on the bottom of the page. Click it, and that user will be added to your blocked list.
How can I unblock a user?
In the account management screen please enter the "manage blocked users" option. Here you can find a list of all users that you have blocked. Click"Remove from blocked list" by the user you wish to unblock.
I've encountered a suspicious or disturbing profile. What should I do?
If you encounter a profile that looks fake, or who's behavior seems inappropriate, you can report him to the admins by clicking on the "Report this user" button at the bottom of every profile. Please fill out the form, and we will look into it. The report will only be seen by the site admins.
I've received a notification about a new message, but I cant see it?
The message was probably sent by a user that has since ben blocked.
Why am I not receiving emails about new notifications?
check your spam/ trash mail folder for our emails. I f you see them there mark them not spam to see them in your inbox in the future. If you still have issues, please report them to us using the "contact us" form.

Account management

Can I update my details or photo?
Yes. In your account management screen you may edit your details and upload or remove photos from your profile.
How may I change my password?
To change your password, head to the account management screen, and select "change password"
how can I freeze or delete my account?
You can't directly delete your account. You can freeze your account by selecting "freeze account" in the account management screen. Frozen accounts will not be displayed, and are deleted after a certain period of , inactivity. Please note, that logging in to a frozen account will wake it., so if you want your account deleted, do not log in.
I forgot my password. What do I do?
Head to the "Reset password" page and enter the email you used to sign up. A new password will be sent to that mailbox. If you still have problems, lets us know using the "Contact us" form.
Why are the photos I uploaded not appearing in my profile?
Every photo must be approved by a moderator, and this may take up to 24 hours. It will take longer on weekends and holidays.
Why was my photo rejected?
A photo may be rejected for the following reasons: 1. Fake photos- if we think you are using an image that is not of yourself, we will not approve it. 2. If you don't appear in the photo, it will not be approved. 3. Keep it classy- if you are not clothed or we feel that your photo is not a good fit for our community, we will not approve it. 4. No photos of children, or with children in them.
Can I share my full name or email in my profile?
No. Sharing contact info (full name, phone, contact info, social media handles, etc.) is against our terms of service, and will get you banned.
What is a verified profile?
A profile marked as verified means that the user is a real person. Profiles become marked as verified if other uses indicate they are real people, or if a site admin marks them as verified.
How can I mark someones profile as verified?
Simple! Every user has a "Verify profile" button on his profile. Clicking it will mark that user s verified. You may only verify a profile once. Please don mark a profile as verified unless you are sure that it belongs to a real person, and the details in the profile match the person behind the screen.
What is a private picture?
On the site there are two types of pictures: public and private. The public photo is visible to everyone, and is displayed on the main page. Private photos are visible only to users that have been granted explicit permission by the owner of the picture (site admins will see them as well). To view private photos, you must request permission from the owner. Please note, a main photo can not be private.

Lists

How can I see if someone viewed my profile?
In the "Lists" screen you can see a "viewed me list"
What does the "add to favorites" button do? Where can I see my favorites?
Add to favorites lets you quickly access certain users. To view the list, open the "Lists" screen, and click "My favorites".
How can I remove someone from my favorites?
To remove a user from your favorites list, enter the account management page and click "manage favorites". to remove someone, just click "remove from list" that appears on their profile.
How do I know who added me totheir favorites?
In the "Lists" page, their is a category"added me to favorites" where you can see users that have added you to their favorites list.