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Where to find polyamory people?
You've come a long way reading about poly dating. Maybe you are new to this, or you are curious about it, maybe you are in a monogamous relationship, and you and your partner have just discovered that you both want to have sex with other people. You want to do this while preserving your emotional bond. This is entirely possible, and if you've already thought about it, great.
If you want to be with other people but haven't talked to your partner yet, then open up. Tell them your feelings and express yourself the best you can. Your partner may end up feeling the same way.
Okay, so here's the deal. You both want to be with other people. How to do it without hurting the feelings of others is the hard part.
Remember these four core values: trust, communication, consent, and mutual respect. Without them, you cannot be successful in seeing other people. You can have a healthy poly relationship that will last as long as you both want it with them.
You and your partner need to talk about seeing other people and having sex with them. What does this mean for you and them? Keep in mind that this shouldn't be an easy fix for lack of variety in the bedroom or other relationship issues. You must have a genuine desire for sex without using it to fill in the gaps.
Once you have decided to have sex with multiple partners, you need to set some rules. For example, will you take partners home? Or sleep with them in their home? How about going out in public with them? Talk about all the things you would like to do and listen to all your partner wants. Express what you don't want to happen.
Once you know everything you want and it's safe to start looking for sex partners, you can search for a polyamorous dating site.
The Poly in Love dating site has something new for polyamorous people. The feature allows people whose status is "I'm dating someone," "I'm married," or "I'm in an open relationship" to link the two profiles and search for other people who want to join their relationship.
PolyinLove has a long history to tell as it was founded a few years ago.
User experiences give PolyinLove due credit for the diversity of options and users. Starting at several thousand, the current number of active user accounts is over thousands. This number is quite impressive for a new web platform with narrow specialization in multi-partner relationships.
The best way to succeed with a polyamorous dating site is to be open. Be open about it with your romantic partner, if you have one, and be open to your sexual partners. If they don't like the idea, then go ahead and find someone who feels comfortable.
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