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Polyamory
The world of relationships is increasingly rich and vast, so much so that we hear more frequently about polyamory or polyamorous relationships. Have you ever thought that you could love two different people in a strong and balanced way at the same time?
Being polygamous is part of the human being; monogamy is a practice built to ensure stability for the family and, above all, to ensure balance for children. History teaches us that the concept of polyamory has always existed. But what exactly is polyamory? Let's find out together.
What is Polyamory?
Polyamory is considered a type of relationship in which love is shared between several people. A polyamorous person addresses the topic and shares it with their partner, who can choose whether to continue their relationship and acquaintance or end it. At the basis of this type of relationship, there is, in fact, mutual sincerity; among the characteristics to underline is the absence of distinction between gender and sexual orientation.
What is the difference between polyamory and an open relationship?
There is not such a clear and marked difference. The word "polyamory" can be considered an umbrella term containing multiple types of relationships that partners choose according to their needs. Therefore, Open relationship couples are mostly about sexual relationship whilst polyamory is more about finding love and relationship.
Why should a person choose such a mode of love? "Every relationship reflects the mood of individuals and the values they share, including the personalities and values of the other. Those who live in polyamory do so because they believe that affections, feelings, and attractions should not be limited to the classic dyad, but that the fullness of living the relationship is found in a wider situation "
So, what requirements must people who are part of a polyamorous relationship have? "Many have the idea that the polyamorous relationship is similar to an erotic film where there is no suffering, and there is constant and continuous enjoyment, while for others, it is a sort of perversion to the detriment of collective morality."
In reality, the polyamorous relationship is not dissimilar from the two. Sometimes, the difficulties are wider and perhaps more challenging to manage because the dialogue is between several people who try to assert their reasons. Indeed, the acceptance of the global sharing of the relationship with other people and the management of the difficulties that may arise in the construction of the relationship are more demanding. Suppose a standard couple tries to grow at a constant pace. In that case, the polyamorous couple can experience important peaks both in growth and collapse because emotional management is extended to more people.
The challenges to face
Those who start this journey must know that there are some difficulties and challenges. The first is jealousy that we have already mentioned previously: in this case, the difference is the dialogue and the establishment of boundaries together. The people involved try to keep an open communication channel to understand the causes of this insecurity. Another problem is the tiredness given by the commitment necessary to dedicate oneself in a profound way to several relationships at the same time. Even though there are challenges in polyamory relationship, With good communication every things is possible.
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